Thursday, August 1, 2013

Life on a Thursday

It's raining.  I haven't fixed my hair yet.  I've been doing home repairs lately and things don't always go well.  I like to blog and I haven't been.  I have projects that I want to do.  I have ideas that need to be expressed.  I need to balance the checkbook.  And visit my parents.  And have people over. And my class reunion is on Saturday and I don't want to go.  But there's a few people I would like to see.  But I don't want to go.  But I will.

Wow.  I guess it's one of those mornings.  What's the solution?
 1.  Fix my hair.
 2.  Do an ab workout because I haven't done one for weeks, and procrastinating is ridiculous.
 3.  Red out a drawer or cabinet ("red out" or "red up" is a Pennsylvania Dutch term that means to put things away.  When you red off the table, you are clearing it).  Decluttering/organizing energizes me and that's what I need.
 4.  Call someone to come fix the doorknob I removed and can't get to work now.
 5.  Balance the checkbook because it has to be done.
 6.  Work on a fun project after balancing the checkbook because I need a reward that doesn't involve chocolate because eating chocolate will make me feel good then make me feel bad.
 7.  Thank God for health, shelter, provision, friends, family, flowers, rain, breezes, butter, electricity, running water, socks, soap, and dishwashers.

And yes, one day soon I will blog about my beautiful daughter's recent wedding... I'm waiting for a few more pictures!


"Finally, be strong in the Lord and in His mighty power.  Put on the full armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes."  --Ephesians 6:10-11

That's the best thing to do-- even before fixing my hair.  Have a good day, my friends!

Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Twisty

Life has a tendency to take many unexpected twists and turns.  Four years ago I wouldn't have believed that between 2010 and 2013 I would go to Africa and England, see two of my three children get married, move out of our historic Civil War era house, renovate my in-laws house and move into it, put both of the aforementioned houses up for sale, and be preparing to move to a rental house and then build another house.

Here's how it happened:
Big Life Twist #1
We went to Africa on a mission trip in 2010 and found out that our happiness has little to do with our stuff and much more to do with serving God in ways He designs and in ways we wouldn't even think of.

We kept saying to each other, "Can you believe we are in Africa?!!"


Collating papers for books for pastors in Namibia.
Then in 2011, we got ourselves a new member of the family.  This was not an unexpected twist, just a wonderful one.


Very Unexpected Twist
About that same time we decided to downsize and move from the historic house we had cherished for over 20 years to something smaller and more practical.  Life's not about stuff, you know?  But we kept both houses just in case the kids would want our stuff.

Great house for raising kids


The cute downsizer
2012 found us happily living in our downsized house, celebrating the engagement of child #2 and getting ready to welcome a new son-in-law.


We also traveled to England for a family vacation.  We LOVE being with our kids.  It doesn't matter where-- in any location, any house, any country...



Now in 2013, our house is a lovely place to live and entertain...

Bridal shower


But, it turns out that our kids don't really want our "stuff" (i.e. houses) either. They're going to do their own thing in their own time in their own places. You see, it's all about the people.  It's not about keeping all the stuff in the family.  Like I said, it doesn't matter where we live.  Good relationships aren't contingent on certain locations.  And our happiness isn't rooted in a certain rectangular structure in southern Pennsylvania.

Most Recent Bold Twist: sell them both!
Yep, let's simplify, downsize, start over.  We're ready to move on.  Well, we're not moving very far, but we are starting over.  I'm so excited!  I'm excited to get rid of the baggage of way too much property, lawn, furniture.... stuff.  I'm excited to empty nest with my great husband of THIRTY years (well almost empty nest-- the youngest is in college-- and we love having her home this summer!)  I'm excited to build something brand new.  I'm excited at the thought of having more freedom to serve God in whatever way He leads us.  I am hoping He leads me to Haiti soon, maybe back to Namibia... who knows?

Let's build a house right about... here.
Are we nuts?  Maybe so.  If we are, I hope we're almonds.  They are so good with chocolate.

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

There's Always Hope




Do you ever feel like there are things in your life which you are helpless to overcome?  Maybe sins you keep committing over and over again?  Maybe circumstances that are difficult, painful and seemingly without end?  I came across a compilation of scriptures that is so hope-filled that I have to share it.  God offers us love, hope and help.  I hope these words encourage you today…




Our God is sovereign over the whole universe. 

He has your best interests at heart.

Jeremiah 29:11 
11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
Matthew 6:7-8
7 And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words. 8 Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him.
Romans 8:28
28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.



He will accomplish His purposes in your life.

Isaiah 46:9-11
9 Remember the former things, those of long ago;
    I am God, and there is no other;
    I am God, and there is none like me.
10 I make known the end from the beginning,
    from ancient times, what is still to come.
I say, ‘My purpose will stand,
    and I will do all that I please.’
11 From the east I summon a bird of prey;
    from a far-off land, a man to fulfill my purpose.
What I have said, that I will bring about;
    what I have planned, that I will do.
Romans 8:29
29 For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters.
Philippians 1:6
6 being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.
Philippians 2:13
13 for it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose.




He promises to meet your EVERY need.

Psalm 34:10
10 The lions may grow weak and hungry,
    but those who seek the Lord lack no good thing.
Psalm 34:15-18
15 The eyes of the Lord are on the righteous,
    and his ears are attentive to their cry;
16 but the face of the Lord is against those who do evil,
    to blot out their name from the earth.
17 The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears them;
    he delivers them from all their troubles.
18 The Lord is close to the brokenhearted
    and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
Psalm 37:23-24
23 The Lord makes firm the steps
    of the one who delights in him;
24 though he may stumble, he will not fall,
    for the Lord upholds him with his hand.
Matthew 6:33-34
33 But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. 34 Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.



He promises to provide whatever you need for every good work He wants you to do.

1 Corinthians 12:7
7 Now to each one the manifestation of the Spirit is given for the common good.
2 Timothy 3:16-17
16 All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching,rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, 17 so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.
1 Peter 4:10-11
10 Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms. 11 If anyone speaks, they should do so as one who speaks the very words of God. If anyone serves, they should do so with the strength God provides, so that in all things God may be praised through Jesus Christ. To him be the glory and the power for ever and ever. Amen.



He promises to be with you through everything and all the time.

Psalm 23:1-6
1 The Lord is my shepherd, I lack nothing.
2     He makes me lie down in green pastures,
he leads me beside quiet waters,
3     he refreshes my soul.
He guides me along the right paths
    for his name’s sake.
4 Even though I walk
    through the darkest valley,
I will fear no evil,
    for you are with me;
your rod and your staff,
    they comfort me.
5 You prepare a table before me
    in the presence of my enemies.
You anoint my head with oil;
    my cup overflows.
6 Surely your goodness and love will follow me
    all the days of my life,
and I will dwell in the house of the Lord
    forever.
Psalm 121:1-8
1 I lift up my eyes to the mountains—
    where does my help come from?
2 My help comes from the Lord,
    the Maker of heaven and earth.
3 He will not let your foot slip—
    he who watches over you will not slumber;
4 indeed, he who watches over Israel
    will neither slumber nor sleep.
5 The Lord watches over you—
    the Lord is your shade at your right hand;
6 the sun will not harm you by day,
    nor the moon by night.
7 The Lord will keep you from all harm—
    he will watch over your life;
8 the Lord will watch over your coming and going
    both now and forevermore.
2 Timothy 4:18
18 The Lord will rescue me from every evil attack and will bring me safely to his heavenly kingdom. To him be glory for ever and ever. Amen.
1 John 5:18
18 We know that anyone born of God does not continue to sin; the One who was born of God keeps them safe, and the evil one cannot harm them.



*All scripture is from the New International Version (NIV)

**The concepts and groupings of scripture are from “Self-Confrontation: A Manual for In-Depth Biblical Discipleship” developed by John C. Broger.

***The pictures are not recent.  But I have HOPE that it will warm up and that I will soon see flowers like these.